I changed my mind
I admit I have never been a rainy day person. I hear people talking about rain and enjoying feeling the raindrops. I get wet in rain. I especially don't like wet feet. And I don't like wearing wet socks. I…
Where do you feel at home?
Where do you feel at home? What is the place where your system just calms down? I have been pondering this lately. Like other summers Pete and I have spent weeks in the cabin in Finland this summer. That is…
Paradise is what I spoiled myself with
My grandmother was an exceptional woman. She was very modern for her time. She wore pants when most women wore skirts and dresses. She painted the entrance of her home in pink and the kitchen floor red in the cabin.…
The 5 levels of honesty
What is honesty? What does honesty mean to you and what does it look like? Is it about not lying? Or telling whatever is important? Or maybe something else? Being real? Authentic? In Radical Honesty we tend to see honesty…
What I learned from the movie Juniper
Recently I went to see the movie ”Juniper” - a movie starring Charlotte Rampling who I very much enjoy seeing in movies. This movie was yet another movie I enjoyed seeing her in. The movie is a lot about loneliness,…
My father died
My father died in April. My family and I buried him on the 5th of May. For weeks, I’d told myself that writing about my father’s death is too early. Today, I was thinking about what I wanted to write…
Do you hear the raindrops?
When was the last time you consciously slowed down? Walked a little slower?Stopped to look at the sky or trees? I have been slow for the past few days. I got done less than normally.Last week I wrote about how I…
You are perfect as you are
I have been tired lately. 11 days ago we finished Radical Honesty Trainer's Training in Winterberg, Germany and I have been feeling tired ever since. My father's funeral also took place last week adding to the emotional intensity and stress. I have been…
7 tips for getting off of the unhealthy relationship roller-coaster
In the Honesty Europe Community group on Facebook, one person requested that I write about how to get over a romantic relationship that has many unhealthy components yet the pull is really strong. The exact text goes like this: “I would like to…
I turned 50… what’s changed?
A few weeks back I turned 50.I think it was a bigger deal for Pete than for me.I don't feel any different – not older nor wiser.Pete organized an online dance for the Honesty Europe community and friends to join…