The power of NO
Are you good at saying "no"? Do you feel guilty when you say no to someone? Or are you one of those (few) people who find "no" far easier than yes? I think "no" is a very powerful – and…
When dancing was a symbolic act
Last Tuesday I went to ecstatic dance and Pete went to see a movie.Pete wanted to see this movie in a special event which is run by a guy who shows wanky movies and gives an introduction to the movie…
What to do when you don’t know what you want
I got this question What to do when you don't know what you want? and I think it is a great one. Talking about asking for what you want does not help or empower much when you don't have wishes…
Do you ask for what you want?
Dear reader, Do you ask for what you want? Or do you stay silent with a fear of hearing a 'no'? Or not wanting to come across as 'needy' or 'selfish'? On Wednesday I led a webinar on the theme…
Asking for what I want
Do you want to know what I think is one of the biggest routes to happiness? Asking for what I want. Each time I want something, asking for it. When I worry that the other person doesn’t want the same…
Are you making commitments or living up to other’s expectations?
Do you have expectations of your loved ones and don’t always express them?Do you expect your partner, family member or friend to know what you want without telling them because you have such a long history together?Do you tend to…