Sea breeze and sore calves ☀️
sunny regards from the beautiful island of La Palma! Pete and I arrived on Saturday here in the isla bonita as they call La Palma – the beautiful island. La Palma is beautiful indeed.This is the most green and lush…
“settles, softens, makes space for imperfection”
It only takes a reminder to breathe,a moment to be still, and just like that,something in me settles, softens, makesspace for imperfection. The harsh voiceof judgment drops to a whisper and Iremember again that life isn’t a relayrace; that we…
Note! ”Eggs do not freeze well…”
"Wait! Where is the food bag?"Made it on time.I was standing in the train entrance.And then: I did not see my bright green bag anywhere. I had rushed to the train in Parkano and got in with my heavy grey backpack, ready…
What the heck are relationship agreements?
I love talking about Relationship purposes (having a vision of what the purpose of our relationship is) and Relationship agreements.I find the drafting, talking, agreeing and writing final wording down a connecting and clarifying experience. This process helps me to feel safe and grounded…
Pete’s and Tuulia’s Six Tips for juicy relationship
I love (and sometimes hate!) working with couples. In my experience too many couples start to work on their issues only when shit really hits the fan. Meaning they have said too many hurting words and have not listened each…
When dancing was a symbolic act
Last Tuesday I went to ecstatic dance and Pete went to see a movie.Pete wanted to see this movie in a special event which is run by a guy who shows wanky movies and gives an introduction to the movie…
Thanks for being part of our year!
This is Pete. Tuulia usually writes these newsletters. Over the past few days, while Tuulia and I have huddled and cuddled here in our candlelit old farmhouse beside frozen Lake Koves in Finland, I’ve been thinking back on 2024 and what Tuulia and…
I felt envious…
I confess that I have felt irritated reading people's accounts of the past year on Facebook.Many pictures.Friends, Family. Celebrations.Happy faces.Mountains, sea, beaches, scenery.People share about the key events, successes and happiness (and some struggles sometimes too) of the past year.And I grinch.Feel uneasy.Tightness in my…